'] . '" ' . $item_id; if( !empty($content['option']['background']) || !empty($padding) ){ echo 'style="'; if( !empty($content['option']['background-type']) && $content['option']['background-type'] == 'full-color' ){ echo !empty($content['option']['background'])? 'background-color: ' . $content['option']['background'] . '; ': ''; } echo $border; echo $padding; echo '" '; } echo '>'; $inner_container = false; $inner_style = ''; if( empty($content['option']['background-type']) || $content['option']['background-type'] == 'color' ){ $inner_container = true; $inner_style = ' style="background-color: ' . $content['option']['background'] . ';" '; } echo '
'; echo ($inner_container)? '
': ''; foreach( $content['items'] as $item ){ if( $item['item-type'] == 'wrapper' ){ gdlr_print_column_wrapper( $item ); }else{ gdlr_print_item( $item ); } } echo '
'; echo ($inner_container)? '
': ''; echo '
'; // close container echo ''; // close wrapper } } // print parallax wrapper if( !function_exists('gdlr_print_parallax_wrapper') ){ function gdlr_print_parallax_wrapper( $content ){ global $parallax_wrapper_id; $parallax_wrapper_id = empty($parallax_wrapper_id)? 1: $parallax_wrapper_id; if( empty($content['option']['page-item-id']) ){ $content['option']['page-item-id'] = 'gdlr-parallax-wrapper-' . $parallax_wrapper_id; $parallax_wrapper_id++; } $item_id = ' id="' . $content['option']['page-item-id'] . '" '; global $gdlr_spaces; $padding = (!empty($content['option']['padding-top']) && ($gdlr_spaces['top-wrapper'] != $content['option']['padding-top']))? 'padding-top: ' . $content['option']['padding-top'] . '; ': ''; $padding .= (!empty($content['option']['padding-bottom']) && ($gdlr_spaces['bottom-wrapper'] != $content['option']['padding-bottom']))? 'padding-bottom: ' . $content['option']['padding-bottom'] . '; ': ''; $border = ''; if( !empty($content['option']['border']) && $content['option']['border'] != 'none' ){ if($content['option']['border'] == 'top' || $content['option']['border'] == 'both'){ $border .= ' border-top: 4px solid '. $content['option']['border-top-color'] . '; '; } if($content['option']['border'] == 'bottom' || $content['option']['border'] == 'both'){ $border .= ' border-bottom: 4px solid '. $content['option']['border-bottom-color'] . '; '; } } $content['option']['show-section'] = !empty($content['option']['show-section'])? $content['option']['show-section']: ''; echo '
'; if( !empty($content['option']['background-mobile']) ){ if( is_numeric($content['option']['background-mobile']) ){ $background = wp_get_attachment_image_src($content['option']['background-mobile'], 'full'); $background = $background[0]; }else{ $background = $content['option']['background-mobile']; } echo ''; } // background pattern }else if($content['option']['type'] == 'pattern'){ $background = GDLR_PATH . '/images/pattern/pattern-' . $content['option']['pattern'] . '.png'; echo 'style="background-image: url(\'' . $background . '\'); ' . $padding . $border . '" >'; // background video }else if( $content['option']['type'] == 'video' ){ echo 'style="' . $padding . $border . '" >'; global $gdlr_gallery_id; $gdlr_gallery_id++; $overlay_opacity = (empty($content['option']['video-overlay']))? 0: floatval($content['option']['video-overlay']); echo ''; // background video / none }else if(!empty($padding) || !empty($border) ){ echo 'style="' . $padding . $border . '" >'; } echo '
'; foreach( $content['items'] as $item ){ if( $item['item-type'] == 'wrapper' ){ gdlr_print_column_wrapper( $item ); }else{ gdlr_print_item( $item ); } } echo '
'; echo '
'; // close container echo '
'; // close wrapper } } // print full size wrapper if( !function_exists('gdlr_print_full_size_wrapper') ){ function gdlr_print_full_size_wrapper( $content ){ $item_id = empty($content['option']['page-item-id'])? '': ' id="' . $content['option']['page-item-id'] . '" '; global $gdlr_spaces; $padding = (!empty($content['option']['padding-top']) && ($gdlr_spaces['top-full-wrapper'] != $content['option']['padding-top']))? 'padding-top: ' . $content['option']['padding-top'] . '; ': ''; $padding .= (!empty($content['option']['padding-bottom']) && ($gdlr_spaces['bottom-wrapper'] != $content['option']['padding-bottom']))? 'padding-bottom: ' . $content['option']['padding-bottom'] . '; ': ''; $border = ''; if( !empty($content['option']['border']) && $content['option']['border'] != 'none' ){ if($content['option']['border'] == 'top' || $content['option']['border'] == 'both'){ $border .= ' border-top: 4px solid '. $content['option']['border-top-color'] . '; '; } if($content['option']['border'] == 'bottom' || $content['option']['border'] == 'both'){ $border .= ' border-bottom: 4px solid '. $content['option']['border-bottom-color'] . '; '; } } $background = !empty($content['option']['background'])? ' background-color: ' . $content['option']['background'] . '; ': ''; $content['option']['show-section'] = !empty($content['option']['show-section'])? $content['option']['show-section']: ''; $style = (!empty($padding) || !empty($border) || !empty($background))? ' style="' . $padding . $border . $background . '" ': ''; echo '
'; foreach( $content['items'] as $item ){ if( $item['item-type'] == 'wrapper' ){ gdlr_print_column_wrapper( $item ); }else{ gdlr_print_item( $item ); } } echo '
'; echo '
'; // close wrapper } } // get column class if( !function_exists('gdlr_get_column_class') ){ function gdlr_get_column_class( $size ){ switch( $size ){ case '1/9': return 'one-ninth column'; break; case '1/8': return 'one-eighth column'; break; case '1/7': return 'one-seventh column'; break; case '1/6': return 'two columns'; break; case '1/5': return 'one-fifth column'; break; case '1/4': return 'three columns'; break; case '2/5': return 'two-fifth columns'; break; case '1/3': return 'four columns'; break; case '1/2': return 'six columns'; break; case '3/5': return 'three-fifth columns'; break; case '2/3': return 'eight columns'; break; case '3/4': return 'nine columns'; break; case '4/5': return 'four-fifth columns'; break; case '1/1': return 'twelve columns'; break; default : return 'twelve columns'; break; } } } // print column wrapper if( !function_exists('gdlr_print_column_wrapper') ){ function gdlr_print_column_wrapper( $content ){ echo '
'; foreach( $content['items'] as $item ){ gdlr_print_item( $item ); } echo '
'; // end of column section } } ?> Bonding between a parent and a child now-a-days - Writemore
11
Oct
2017

Bonding between a parent and a child now-a-days

Scene – 1 (In the morning)

Naina: Amit! Amit! Wake up!Its 7.30 now.Were running out of time wake up now.

Amit: Please Di! Five minutes more! Please na!

Naina:Look! This is becoming a habit to you everyday.You shouldnt do this.Otherwise I would have to rang up mom.

Amit:Ohh!! You would call mom! I guess she and dad had left for the office already?

Naina:Yeah! They said theres some important work at office.

Amit:Everyday the same answer.Anyway, What did Nanny prepare today for breakfast?Im not eating that though!Why dont mom prepare anything for breakfast at least?

Naina:See Amit, they have really important,otherwise she would have prepared.

Amit: This is not the first time I guess.I see some of my friends moms dropping them at schools.Why dont our mom drop us?

Naina:Those people dont work but our mom does.She is helping our father.

Amit:Whatever! Okay, Ill wait outside for the bus you, have your breakfast and come.

Scene – 2 (At office)

Latha:Is that problem solved?

Sunil:No! Im trying since last 3 days but I could not figure out the details of the financial crisis.Now theres going to be a problem with the salaries of the staff.If we couldnt figure out where did all the money went even though we are maintaining records up to date.

Latha:Dont worry! Well sort it out! Now that Ive given up all the household work Im able to concentrate fully here.Nanny we hired is looking after our kids.

Sunil:Thats completely fine! We need to be financially stable by the time Amit and Naina grew up.

Latha:Yeah! We should earn as much money as we can before they actually get into a perfect career.

Scene – 3(In the evening after school)

Amit:Yay!! Im done with my school today.Di, where is mom did she come home? I need her help to do my homework.

Naina:Shes not home yet.May be it gets late I guess.

(Amit goes to his room silently and locks it up)

(After two hours)

Naina:Eat this cake! You didnt eat anything since you have come from school.Mom is on the way.

Amit:She comes after I sleep.I dont want anything.(He goes to his room crying)

(After few minutes)

Latha and Sunil enters house.Theyre arguing about some issues related to their work.Naina was scared to disturb her parents.She silently ate her dinner and slept.While Amit he wants his mom to make him eat.But she was busy in earning money for her children.

Guys, money is the not the only thing you should value for in this world.Theres much more than money. Your kids,yes They need you in everything they do.They need your love they need your care they need your help.Earning for their career which is going to happen after few years is useless.What if all your money gets wasted on a theft?No use.But you lost your valuable time to spend with your kids.See in the case Amit, he some days later he decides be independent and doesnt discuss anything with his parents.Hes a little kid who doesnt know what is good and what is bad.So, people please wake up from you money-minded technical mind and ask your kids how they feel without you.Hiring up a nanny and giving them everything they need doesnt satisfy the criteria of being a parent.Talk with them, let them share things with you.You share with them.Tell them stories and make them happy.A hug and a kiss on forehead makes your kids very happy.A nanny wont look after your kids like you do.There will be very bad consequences of such behavior from parents.Either kids stop talking to their parents, or else they start involving in some other activities as there is no proper guidance.Youre leaving you kids independent in this cunning world without any proper training.How can they face without you?

Its not that every one is doing the same, but people who are in this way please help your kids out to face outside world.Let them be happy with you.Let them be loved from you.Show them affection.Show them love.Show them everything that makes them happy.Finally dont run after money always.


Cheers!!

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